Believe in Yourself!

If you are going to be successful in creating the life of your dreams, you have to believe that you are capable of making it happen. You have to believe you have the right stuff, that you are able to pull it off. You have to believe in yourself. 
Whether you call it self-esteem, self-confidence, or self-assurance, it is a deep-seated belief that you have what it takes—the abilities, inner resources, talents, and skills to create your desired results. Believing in yourself is a choice.
 It is an attitude you develop over time. Although it helps if you had positive and supportive parents, the fact is that most of us had run-of-the-mill parents who inadvertently passed on to us the same limiting beliefs and negative conditioning they grew up with. But remember the past is the past. There is no payoff for blaming them for your current level of self-confidence. Its now your responsibility to take charge of your own self-concept and your beliefs. 
You must choose to believe that you can do anything you set your mind to—anything at all—because, in fact, you can. It might help you to know that the latest brain research now indicates that with enough positive self-talk and positive visualization combined with proper training, coaching, and practice, you can learn to do almost anything.
If you assume in favor of yourself and act as if it is possible, then you will do the things that are necessary to bring about the results. If you believe it is impossible, you will not do what is necessary, and you will not produce the result. It becomes as self-fulfilling prophecy. If you are going to be successful, you need to give up the phrase “I can’t” and all of its cousins, such as “I wish I were able to.” The words I can’t actually disempower you. 
They actually make you weaker when you say them.